Okay so after the birth of my third child, my lovely baby girl..my love life takes a turn for "NOT HAVING IT" SO MUCH VILLE...but that's okay because we are still trying to figure out if our son with Autism will be able to attend regular elementary school...Maybe as it gets closer to his 5th birthday..he will miraculously develop kindergarten level social skills and decent conversational speech...But unfortunately Autism doesn't work like that.
Okay back to sex..I have to stop and throw certain things in because a lot of things got me to this point of an unfulfilled sex life with limited if any orgasms...so Three kids later and now money is tighter than ever..the adjustable rate mortgage goes in the wrong direction..and we owe the IRS...so my husband and I are forced to make some hard decision..give up the extravagant upper middle class lifestyle..big house, fancy car, large backyard...etc..you know...Well to make a long story short because I can put so much in that my imagination could not possibly make it all up. ...we Moved back to my hometown..into my Great-Grandmother's House....with a less than $22,000 mortgage....small charming more than a century old home...no insulation, no 20th century or 21st century amenities...I mean talk about a drastic lifestyle change we went from paying 2 grand a month for a mortgage to barely $400 month for a mortgage and now own my great-mother's home outright...It's still so much we want to do to the house...so we piled on the Cottage Magazines, HOUSE BEAUTIFUL, COTTAGE LIVING, THIS OLD HOUSE...I mean endless possibilities for something steeped in history for me because my mother and grandmother grew up in this house...and My Great-Grandmother's life as a young woman began here..My husband was over the moon with non-stop projects...Lowe's, and Home Depot every weekend...Sounds great don't it..Sounds like the perfect Life...Money left to travel and see the world, enough money to get out of debt..YEAH!!! WRONG!!!
I tell you what if my daughter had not been conceived in our former Suburban home...no conception would have taken place in this house...The downside about living in a family home is that relatives and old friends have easy access to you...ZERO PRIVACY.....When we first moved in to my great-grandmother's home there was no AC in the home...Like I told you no central heat and air, nothing that has to do with Modern living, this house did not have.. It was August 2007...August 11th to be exact and the house was HOT!!!! at least much hotter than I was used to...I have no memory of that house being that hot when I was a kid...it's funny how when you're a kid things like AC really doesn't matter in the Summer..You're only thinking about getting outside playing with you friends all day..and getting wet with the hose in the backyard or going swimming...But anyway I had just had a baby exactly two months ago.. so my body was still very hormonal...and I was breastfeeding..I was just down right uncomfortable..and the last thing I needed was a house full of guest..in 90 degree August heat of South Carolina with no AC...Thinking that common sense would soon kick into my guest....and they would leave...I mean newborn baby, two other kids, packed boxes everywhere, no AC, hot house....no brainer right..maybe someone should have said well we will let you guys get back to unpacking and getting settled in... no one budge...the actually sat in my hot house fanning themselves and complaining...WHY DIDN'T I TELL THEM TO LEAVE....I will tell you why why I come back
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